Check in for Nov 8-16

topic posted Sat, November 7, 2009 - 9:12 PM by  Ray
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I was in contact with some acrid, toxic
fumes from ????
and my eyes have been alternately watering,
dry and irritated, swollen shut,
and my sinuses are like a great damn,
holding back tremendous pressure, no matter how
hard I blow.
(I'm thinking about renting an air-compressor and setting it
to...oh, about 400psi and seeing if that will work...)

I know, it's not mental health...
but it's what has been going on this week for me,
besides money problems.

Oh the bright side, my new counselor seems
nice, even though it's still a little early to guage her
personality.

What's up in YOUR universe?
posted by:
Ray
offline Ray
SF Bay Area
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  • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

    Sat, November 7, 2009 - 9:42 PM
    I'm sorry, that sounds really uncomfortable. Have you tried using a neti pot? Nasal irrigation...super easy, it really helps a lot! You can find them at most pharmacies now, I think.
    • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

      Sun, November 8, 2009 - 11:29 AM
      Yike, Ray!!! Sorry that happened and hope it clears up for you soon!

      My old boss used to do nasal irrigation and swore by it. I always called the solution she used "Nose Juice." I irritated her a lot I think.

      Personally, I am doing better. Not great, but better. I am at least not completely immobilized at this point, which I have been for weeks. It's still bad, but I'm sorta functional.

      People, please take care of yourselves. Eat properly, try to take your meds appropriately, get some exercize and try to get good sleep. I know, tall order. We are getting ready to go into the holidays which SUCK for some (most). So, please post when you need to and don't worry about overposting, sounding crazy or whatever. This is the safe place to be who you are.
      • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

        Mon, November 9, 2009 - 9:29 AM
        Good call Darla...the holidays can be hard. I lost my mom and since then it has not been a pleasant time of year...besides the feeling of needing to be forced into "good cheer"! Plus it's financially difficult for everyone, and especially as a student because aid disbursements start running out and relief isn't in sight until January. I hope I can make it to my dad's for Thanksgiving.

        It's quiet around here...I hope everyone is hanging in there! I've been dragging myself about, but at least I'm not immobile either. Glad you've gotten to the functional point, Darla! I know that doesn't mean it's fun but it's certainly worth celebrating.

        Nasal irrigation is *great*...I try to convert people to the cult of the Neti pot, muahaha! Just kidding. Some people find it too strange.

        Thanks for the reminder to take care of ourselves...sometimes we all need it. It seems most of us have a tendency towards not remembering that self-care!
  • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

    Tue, November 10, 2009 - 12:19 PM
    Yeah I'm stealing your word... ;-)
    Muahaha...
    • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

      Fri, November 13, 2009 - 10:47 AM
      I like awesomatron as well! But, wouldn't that be sort of like a Stepford Wife?

      As for me, at least life isn't dull. My most beloved is BiPolar, but was misdiagnosed a few years ago as having depression and anxiety. What is classifies as "irritable" for most during a manic episode expresses itself as extreme anxiety in him.

      After dealing with what he has known was a wrong Dx for the past two years, he is finally being proactive about getting his Dx and meds straightened out. (He hasn't seen anyone in all that time!) What's more, the meds he's on for depression and anxiety CAUSE mood destabilization and anxiety in those who are BiPolar. Great, huh?

      It helps us both so much to be able to understand that much of what goes on with him is due to the illness and isn't the way life really is. It gives a lot of perspective. And it is a tremendous relief for him to have someone (me) who will hold on tight and ride it out with him. For myself, it actually makes things easier on my own front, being able to be the "strong one" for someone else, to be able to fill a need for one I love so much. It helps me to feel that I might serve some purpose on this earth, after all.
      • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

        Fri, November 13, 2009 - 11:41 AM
        >As for me, at least life isn't dull. My most beloved is BiPolar, but was misdiagnosed a few years ago as having depression and anxiety. What is classifies as "irritable" for most during a manic episode expresses itself as extreme anxiety in him. <

        I think this is exactly what's happened with me! Thanks survivor...at least I know I'm not making it up. They continue to not believe me, but I will keep making my case and maybe they'll put me back on a mood stabilizer (it helped before). Ugh, the fun of diagnoses huh? I hope your SO finds some stability now that he's got the right one!
        • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

          Fri, November 13, 2009 - 2:14 PM
          One of the things I dislike about science as it applies to humans is the way everything has to be broken into classifications and categories. When are they going to get it through their thick skulls that humans aren't categories. We don't fit into boxes. What may be bipolar for one person, or even the majority of cases, isn't necessarily the same for the next person.

          Hey! Just cause I don't fit into your box doesn't mean we can't try that box's remedies!
  • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

    Sun, November 15, 2009 - 12:04 PM
    Yeah bundt...totally agreed. I don't care what it says on the piece of paper, as long as I get the right treatment.
    • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

      Mon, November 16, 2009 - 12:31 AM
      this is such a great tribe! thanks ALL!
      i stopped doing the xmas thing about 6 years ago. no gifts, no cards, no shopping. too stressful. people around me have adjusted and no relationships have suffered that i know of.
      still i feel like i'm not living up to what i "should" be doing. that's a downer. but i emphaisze what I like about this time of year: Christmas carols, god symbolized as an infant, apple, pumpkin, mince and pecan pie, turkey, turkey dressing/stuffing, cranberry sauce, colorful lights, miniature train sets, little kids awe and wonderment, old holiday film classics, driving my friends nuts by singing the full version of "Must Be Santa" (sort of like "The Days of Christmas", just goes on and on), minted hot chocolate, traditional Italian cookies, potluck parties and whatever else I can latch on to in a positive light.
      I'm only too well aware of all the things I HATE about the holidays so won't even go there.
      Black Friday, the day after Thanksgiving, when the frenzied shopping officially begins, is also designated as "spend nothing day" (or something like that) where those of us so inclined make a concerted effort to not part with even one penny for the 24 hours.
      I always enjoy reminding my "caught up in the status quo" friends of this tradition.

      Tomorrow I'm going to try to see a doc at Kaiser as I've had a very sharp pain in one of my man parts for a couple of weeks now when I roll over in bed or stand from a sitting position. Maybe a hernia? We'll see.
      For all of you under the weather I send you my best healing thoughts.
      • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

        Mon, November 16, 2009 - 9:00 AM
        I'm with you, Ron. Although a lot of those things you like about Christmas are the things I don't (I hate the songs!)...I try to concentrate on the relationship part and ignore everything else. Also, as a student who gets money once a semester, Christmas comes at absolutely the wrong time to buy any presents, so I've decided from now on I'm starting a tradition of Valentine's day presents. It's not so loaded with holiday pressure, and it's not at the end of the year when I'm just trying to make sure I have gas and food. Plus, if I'm single at that time of year, it gives me a reason to focus on the people that love me/that I love - not just a romantic relationship.
        • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

          Tue, November 17, 2009 - 1:43 AM
          Better still;...be unique...give people
          Xmas presents on valentine's dayh, with a card...
          then you'll be weird
          and only the people who REALLY care about you
          will tolerate it !

          Imagine a snoopy Xmas card along with
          Reindeer wrapping paper on the gift...
          plus, it's still winter....
      • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

        Mon, November 16, 2009 - 10:44 AM
        > I always enjoy reminding my "caught up in the status quo" friends of this tradition.

        Consumatron friends? ;-)
        • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

          Mon, November 16, 2009 - 4:52 PM
          Ron, I love you--you are the best! Rachel, I love the idea of Valentine's gifts! You're right, it's a good way to make the day about love, whether or not your single.
          • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

            Tue, November 17, 2009 - 5:43 AM
            living in SF for awhile I'd send Chinese New Year cards out, also in February. GUNG HAY FAT CHOY!
            if I'm up to it maybe I'll do that again.
            • Re: Check in for Nov 8-16

              Thu, November 19, 2009 - 8:20 PM
              This sounds like an idea for new years'...
              have a drink as each continent/country/state
              experiences noo yeers'...
              by the time you're finished, you'll have pickled
              your brain!

              but you can still say you only drink once a year - on new years!

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